My name is Betsy Milicevic. A year and a half ago I went to see
a doctor in Los Angeles, California believing I was having a bad
reaction to a medication I was taking. My entire world suddenly
crumbled when I heard this neurologist tell me that, far from
being just an adverse reaction to medication, it was a fatal
disease, Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, which gave me less than
two years left to live. Just like that. And, to make it even
worse, if that is possible, he said that there is absolutely
nothing he or anyone else could do to help me, other than giving
me a pill, Rilutek, which might slow down the onset of symptoms
and extend my life by 2-3 months.
I tried to get into one of the clinical trials of new, more
effective medications being tested around the United States to
no avail. After visiting a healer in Serbia a number of times, I
investigated other avenues of alternative healing. Traditional
Chinese Medicine seemed the best option to me. I had been
receiving acupuncture on and off for many years, and I strongly
believe in it, and at one point I was drinking herbal teas
prepared by an old Taoist TCM master. So I decided to give
myself fully to TCM. I was impressed by the website Dr. Ming's
team has online and decided to come here based solely on that.
While in Beijing on my way here, I met a woman whose friend,
also suffering from ALS, had been here and seen improvements in
his condition that were holding, which further bolstered my
resolve that I was doing the right thing.
My husband and I arrived late one cold and windy night, in early
January, and were met at the airport by one of the translators,
who brought us to the hospital and showed us to our room. The
following morning it all started...I met with my doctors to
discuss my case and hear about their approach to my healing. I
was struck by how warm and friendly everyone was, how caring and
concerned.
Within a very short time, I began to see little improvements£¬
then more. But, most importantly, I felt
secure knowing that I was in the good hands of competent and
dedicated professionals. The elimination of my fears was a very
important factor in my healing. Slowly I saw more and more
improvements in my condition, and therefore became more
positive, and happier, which further helped the healing process.
Every morning my doctor visits me to access my condition, and
based on his observations, he makes alterations to the
prescription for my tea. Then my acupuncturist arrives for an
acupuncture session followed by a traditional medical massage.
These sessions tend to my physical discomforts and keep my
muscles toned. Both of these doctors are very dedicated and I
feel that they are as motivated as I am to heal me, utilizing
all their TCM knowledge to try new approaches and ways to
solving my problems.
We arrived, as I said, in early January, with the intention of
staying 3-4 months, or whatever was necessary for my healing. I
never imagined I would still be here in August! But here I am,
and I feel that staying longer and giving the TCM the time
necessary to work has been the most intelligent decision I've
ever made.
In the beginning of my stay here, I met a young woman from
Jordan, here with her father, a doctor. She had been suffering
from a very painful and disfiguring case of scleroderma. I saw
her leave here cured. There was also a young man from Nigeria
who, when he arrived, had the intellectual capacity of a 12 year
old. He wouldn't talk, had bed wetting issues and other
problems. I watched him improve daily. It was amazing to go on
outings with him, talkative and outgoing after his not being
able to even nod hello just a month earlier. I could go on and
on to marvel at the successes I've witnessed here. And simply to
be in the company of people from all far reaches of the globe
has been an enlightening and enriching experience. I've sat at
dinner, talked and laughed, with people from countries who have
been at war with my own. Broken barriers set by not knowing
individual people. I've learned of their customs and traditions,
tasted their foods, and heard about their stories. This has been
a great gift.
The surrounding area of Zhongfang County, with its lush foliage
is a soothing environment in which to heal. On the many
excursions we have been taken, we were able to appreciate the
exquisite beauty of the surrounding countryside. We were also
given the opportunity to see authentic villages of some of the
ethnic minorities and national monuments which gave us an
appreciation of the cultural heritage of the area. And, of
course being so close to Huaihua City is ideal, whether for
shopping, a meal in a restaurant or just people watching...or,
more accurately, being looked at. I've found the people I've
encountered to be very friendly and open.
I have seen the rise in the popularity of TCM in the United
States. More and more people are becoming wary, if not
completely disappointed in the success of Western medicine to
treat certain illnesses and are searching for alternative
methods of healing. It is my hope that TCM becomes more and more
widely used. Certainly I will do my share of spreading the good
world!